— What To Text Your Ex-Boyfriend (To Make Him Come Crawling Back!)
Relationships end for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes breakups are for the best, and other times… not so much. That said, if there’s one good thing to come out of any breakup it’s the opportunity to not only evaluate your relationship, but also to see how it can be improved. If you’re done some serious thinking and believe that the best thing you can do right now is to win your ex back, then stay tuned, because I have just the texts messages for you!
Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel. For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada, and author of The Devotion System, a program I’ve designed to help women around the world find and lock down the love they want and deserve. And today I want to share with you the types of texts you can send your ex boyfriend to get him back.
Now, chances are you’ve heard about The No Contact period by this point, but for those of you who haven’t I’ll just quickly explain. The No Contact period is 30 days during which you cut off all communication with your ex. That means no texting, no calling, no messaging him online, no showing up at his house, the works. It’s also important that you don’t silently stalk his Facebook or Instagram, and avoid keeping tabs on his every move.
Of course there will be situations where cutting off communication is impossible, for instance, if you work together or have children, but in those scenarios you’ll want to keep contact to an absolute minimum and avoid talking about anything other than the responsibilities you share.
During the No Contact period you’re going to want to focus on yourself. This means taking up new hobbies, spending times with friends and family, and really just doing what makes you happy. Doing so is important for a couple reasons. First, it’ll help distract you from wanting to contact your ex, which will do wonders for winning him back, and second, it will make him miss you. Here’s why.
The thing is, there’s a good chance that your ex expects you to go crawling back to him, begging for another chance to save your relationship. When you do the opposite, it’ll surprise him and make him wonder why you haven’t reached out and what you’ve been so busy doing. In other words, he’ll be missing you. This is where the second benefit comes in. When your ex’s curiosity gets the best of him he’s going to check in on you. Maybe this means calling or texting (ignore both of these if he does), or perhaps he’ll check out your Facebook page or ask mutual friends about you.
So, when you keep busy and surround yourself with those you love your ex will see that you’re not sitting around, heartbroken about the breakup. Instead he’ll realize what a fun, full life you have, and believe me, he’ll want to be a part of it.
Of course there are many tricks and tips I could share for winning your ex back through strategies like the No Contact period and by using social sites like Facebook, but for this video, let’s stick to texting. Just keep in mind that before you send any of the messages I’m about to share with you though that you make sure you’ve let at least a month of no contact pass first. Got it? Lovely!
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Now, let’s talk texting.
To keep things as simple as possible I’ve come up with three types of text you can send your ex to make him want you back. To make it EVEN EASIER, I’ve decided to call these the triple “R” texts, which will be reminder, remember and reminisce.
Let’s start with the first R, Reminder.
Since it’s been some time since you and your ex were in contact, you’re going to want to warm him up to the idea of hearing from you again, and the best way to do so is by sending short thoughtful messages that don’t ask for a response.
For instance, if your ex is really into art and you know there’s a new exhibit coming to town then you could mention that, or if he’s really into a particular sports team or activity then you could use that as your kick starter.
So, to start pinpoint an interest of his, just be sure it’s one you have something relevant to remind him of. For example, let’s say he’s a huge Radiohead fan, you could text him something along the lines of:
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